Mi Cumpleaños

When I turned 18, my sister surprised me with a white water rafting expedition. In honor of my birthday, my parents, brother, sister and I all piled into the six person raft and hoped for tame waters. Nature didn’t quite obey my wish and barely had we hit the first rapid when everyone was thrown into the water except for the guide, my mom and me.

For my 30th, my sister once again planned a surprise outing. That year, we set out for a 4-hour horseback ride high up into the mountains north of Santa Barbara. My dad hadn’t been on the back of a horse since I was small and getting him back on one was quite a feat – such a feat that it took the work of several men to heave and hoe him up. Such a feat that, while we all got off at the midway point to stretch our legs and eat our lunch, he ate his sandwich from atop his horse for fear that he wouldn’t be able to get back up.

May 18th is always a special day – not simply because it’s my birthday but especially because my sister does her all to make it so.

So, this year, when Coral had to leave Spain at the end of April to get back to work and my parents left on May 14th to make it back in time to be with my grandmother while my aunt endured double knee surgery on May 17th, I braced myself for a very different kind of birthday. There would be no surprises this year. My family was far, my closest friends were in different time zones, and I would be working at AlteArte.

As expected, it was very different, but, quite unexpectedly, it was different in a very special kind of way. Stuck at home waiting for a building inspector to come check our apartment for a leak, I wasn’t able to make it to AlteArte until hours after opening time, but heading down the stairs to the main entrance, I saw balloons and immediately knew that David had been up to mischief. Indeed, he had been. The whole place was decorated, and that was just the beginning of what was to come.

Over the next couple of hours, people started arriving, and, before long, AlteArte was buzzing with activity. Unbeknownst to me, David had been telling people that it was my birthday, and not only did they come to celebrate it, but they came bearing gifts. One of my classmates and husband came with an exotic cactus, a local restaurateur gave me a beautiful bracelet, one of the students at the art university made a strawberry pie, our famous artist neighbor gave me one of his art works, a local artisan jeweler gave me a beautiful ring that she designed with turquoise from Peru, a sweet girl from Poland gave me a candle, a Finnish girl and an American girl gave me a beautiful journal, and because our furniture restoration friend knows how much I’m enchanted with our new little village, he gave me a very old book with photos of Altea from many years ago. And the thoughtfulness of our customers-now-friends touched me to the core.

And just when it seemed like my day couldn’t become any more memorable, I was sung Happy Birthday to in Norwegian, Polish, Spanish and English. I had never been sung to in so many languages. And as the people gathered for my birthday and filled AlteArte with their love and laughter, I felt truly special.

And on that day, it hit home what a special life David and I have found and created here in Altea, Spain. The people here might not be friends from childhood, they may not be family, but the connection that I felt with them that day ran deep. I don’t know if this is what happens – if it’s normal that such special connections are made so quickly in Spain’s small villages – but we only arrived last November, and I feel blessed to already have a community of wonderful people surrounding us.

I missed having my family with me this year. I missed the crazy dare devilish adventure that my sister always manages to drum up. But, on that day, there’s no other place that I would have rather been than among my friends at AlteArte. It was truly a memorable way to celebrate, and I feel grateful to David for surprising me in such a special way.

Especially when my sister was far away.

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21 responses to “Mi Cumpleaños

  1. Happy belated birthday!

  2. Happy birthday! That was so sweet of him to plan such a nice surprise. I am sure he knew you would be down about not having your family there. Sounds like you have had some adventures in the past for your special day.

    My 30th is in 2 weeks and we are going to mainland Europe. I will be in Spain, but I do not think I will be near you guys, otherwise I would stop by.

    • Thanks, Melinda! Happy upcoming 30th! How exciting! That’s great that you’ll be traveling a bit to celebrate your special day. I’m sure that it will be unforgettable! I wish that you could stop by Altea. It would be awesome to meet you, but hopefully we’ll be able to coordinate something in the future. Safe travels and happy birthday!

  3. Wow! We are actually beating Coral again in comments!!! I can’t believe it!!!

    Anyway, reading your latest blog brought many laughs, a few tears, and profound sadness that we were not there for your big event – but were instead stuck in Dallas, Texas, thanks to a big storm! Our profoundest gratitude to David and all others who helped to make the day memorable – and to compensate for our absence.

    We loved the part of your blog about your clumsy bungling dad! Can’t even ride a horse! But at least he beat Coral in responding to this latest blog! That’s achievement enough!!!

    • The absence of my family was the only difficult part of the day, but I know that you were with me very much in spirit. As for the horseback riding, you did very good riding. You just didn’t do so great getting on or off! 😉

  4. Oh, Sara, that’s so wonderful that everyone came together to honor you on your special day. *I* feel like the bungling friend for not emailing you until the day AFTER your birthday! I’m glad you had such a wonderful time, and that you have such a wonderful husband (Coucou, David!) to have planned this for you… My only wish, especially after seeing the pictures, is to one day experience AlteArte myself in person!!!

    Gros bisous, cherie!

    • Erin, you will never be the bungling friend! Your friendship has been amazing and I value your constant thoughtfulness and support! So how can we get you over here to experience AlteArte for yourself?! I miss you!

  5. Weve celebrated some fun birthdays together… but this year AlteArte was the best place to celebrate!!!

  6. Your husband is awesome 😀 I love it–AlteArte is like the Spanish version of Cheers!

  7. Oh Sara, I am so happy for you! I would like to say I am amazed that you guys have built such an amazing home for yourselves, but you are an amazing person and such things just seek you out. What a wondeful and memorable birthday in your new home, the first of many wonderful ones to come! Cheers to David and your new friends for making it so very special.

    • Thanks, Amy! Your comments are so sweet and mean the world to me. Thanks for your undying support! It’s very much appreciated!

  8. That’s soooooo soooo sweet!!! It makes me teary eyed. You ARE so special and everyone who knows you knows it! What an awesome birthday, and you have an awesome sister and husband! 🙂 miss you lots!! xoxo

  9. david,the hubby

    Thank you guys for all your comments, Sara deserved such a birthday, the only thing I did was to pass the message, but it really happened because they love Sara.

    • But they would have never even known about it if you hadn’t told them. Thank you for making me feel so special.

  10. I am glad that your birthday this year was so special, Sara!! you deserve every bit of it. you are a magical person. i wish that I could see your business and new life. I miss you!

  11. Sara – I am finally catching up on your blog. What truly beautiful experiences you are having in a life well lived. I hope that one of these days I can come and visit you!

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