Hello. Goodbye.

The great thing about Altea is that it’s so small that you see the same people again and again. Those familiar faces become comforting faces, and, before you know it, they have become your friends. The difficult thing about Altea is that it can be transient at times, especially when the art university lets out for the school year and the students leave – some just for the Summer but others for good.

For the past several weeks, we’ve been saying goodbye as, one by one, the students disperse. It started with Aga. Gentle Aga from Poland who has a super sweet smile. She had left a great and, by all definitions, successful job in Poland to pursue art in Spain and we had first bonded when we found out that we had the same Spanish teacher. But when she got a Summer job near Barcelona, we had to say goodbye. We were honored, though, when she requested to have her going away party at AlteArte. The fact that she wanted to spend her remaining moments with us meant a lot.

Lucia and Shanti were next. Lucia will be returning in the Fall but Shanti, along with her boyfriend, Javi, won’t be. Shanti and Javi have been dating for nearly a decade yet are only in their mid 20s. They had been coming since we had taken over AlteArte and not having them here now leaves a big hole. The day before Shanti and Javi left last week, they invited us for coffee in the small house that they were renting. It was the first time that we were meeting outside of AlteArte and it was nice to see what their lives were like. And in the comfort of their home, Javi and his friend pulled out their guitars and started playing. Although, for them, this was normal as this was often how they spent their evenings before coming to AlteArte, for me, the moment was magical. With a breeze entering through the open door, an unobstructed view of the Mediterranean, in a cute Altean house and surrounded by good people as beautiful music lofted through the air, I knew that a moment like this wouldn’t come around again soon, and I savored each moment. And, in an effort to make it last longer, we asked if they would come play later that night at AlteArte. But when it was nearly closing time and they still hadn’t arrived, we started doubting that they would make it. Then, just as things were winding down, they came. And they took out their guitars and they treated us to a special performance and the magical moment continued until nearly 3 in the morning. Captivated by their music, they created an ambiance unlike any other. And I couldn’t help but feel thrilled, for the fact that they had brought the music here meant that they felt as much at ease at AlteArte as they did at home. That unspoken – yet fully expressed – message spoke volumes and was just as beautiful as the music they were creating.

But it was when Daria left that the weight and sadness of having to say goodbye finally took its toll and I couldn’t keep back the tears. Daria will always hold a special place in my heart ever since the first day that she approached us about having an exhibition of her art at AlteArte. Out of all the places in Altea, she specifically wanted to display her paintings and drawings at AlteArte and brought her portfolio so that we could determine whether it was the type of art we wanted to display. It didn’t take long for us to see that it was. Soft colors, gentle strokes, her paintings are as delicately gentle and beautiful as she is. But what struck us more than her art was how professional, serious and passionate she was about her work. Her portfolio was professional, she took the time to show and explain each piece, and when we told her how much we liked her art and how happy we’d be to exhibit it at AlteArte, her eyes welled with tears, and I was equally touched to see how much it meant to her. And, together, we planned the opening and she made posters that we put up and she made her own invitations, and AlteArte got packed with people that day. And it was touching to see how many came out to show their support for Daria and for local art. And during the months that followed, we got to know her better. We met her family who came from Poland and, last Friday, we bid her farewell when she spent her last evening in Altea at AlteArte. And, before she left, she thanked us and told us how great the energy was at AlteArte. And hearing those words from someone like Daria touched me for it confirmed that we were accomplishing what we had set out to. And after she left, the tears started falling, and they only continued to fall as Pepa, Nadia and Sini hugged me and others showed their concern. And the intensity of my emotions surprised even me, for the connection that I felt with Aga, Lucia, Shanti, Javi and Daria had happened so quickly yet somehow had become so strong.

The good thing about Altea is that it is small enough that it’s easy to quickly become part of the community. You get to know people, you see when they’re having a rough day, you experience the joy when their sister has just given birth, you personally feel the heartache when their father or grandmother is unexpectedly rushed to the hospital. The difficult thing is that it’s easy getting used to seeing certain people frequently so it’s hard to say goodbye when they have to leave.

These people have captured a piece of my heart, and I realize that, although it was Altea’s gorgeous views and climbing, pedestrian streets that initially made me fall head over heels in love, it’s the people that I’ve been fortunate enough to meet since I’ve arrived that is keeping me in love.

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20 responses to “Hello. Goodbye.

  1. This is so happy… and sad at the same time! It is happy in its sadness! Beautifully touching…..

    • Coral, although I know that your comment was written before you had even read it, it was right on! Good job being first to comment yet again!

  2. Altea is like much of life – sad and happy at the same time! We experienced our mixed emotions when we were in Altea, neeting such wonderful friends and then having to say Good-bye!

    We could get very philosophical here, but we’ll stop now!

  3. It was the race of the turtle and the hare!

    You should have seen the drama and laughter that took place here!

  4. You meet good people and its sad to think about losing them. I know very well but on the other hand now you can visit them and stay in touch by computer.. like you have with your friends like me! Go Spain Go!

    • Yes, being able to stay in touch by computer makes the goodbyes a little less painful. Thanks for your sweet comment.

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  6. The turtle, alas, has gone back to Chicago, and to her work. So there is no more laughter here!We’ll have to AlteArte to find that!

    Meanwhile our house is empty!

  7. david,the hubby

    people come and goes in life, but we will always remember those thatt touched our hearts with their words and actions…

  8. Oh Sara, what a great blog! Bitter sweet. So sorry you had to say good bye to anyone, but like you have said before, with all the great modern technology out there it can seem like everyone is in the same room. Just like these people touched you–you touched them as well and SO I have no doubt you all will be friends forever!

    • Thank you, Amy. So glad that we have been able to stay in touch – although it’s well past our monthly phone call!

  9. Wow, how amazing that in such a short time you have developed all of these relationships and bonded with so many people. I understand transient, first with Vegas and now here where everyone is here for two years. People are always coming and going. If all these people are leaving, do you expect a slow summer with the bar? I hope you are able to keep in touch with some of these new friends.

    • It is amazing that such bonds were formed in such a short time. It definitely took me by surprise! Tourists are helping to keep business going during the Summer, but the quality of the interaction is not nearly the same.

  10. it is always difficult to say farewell to people. what is great about life is that great people will keep emerging! keep appreciating the people who you run across and enjoy the uniqueness that each individual brings to the tables of AlteArte

    • Yes, the fact that great people will keep emerging is what keeps it exciting. I know that you’ve had to say goodbye to many friends, yourself, Dave. Yet, you’re amazing how you always manage to reconnect with people from your past.

  11. I learned about Altea that everybody returns sooner or later, even if its just to say hello. Altea still does have that magic that makes people want to come back, stick around and you´ll see.

    • Thanks, Warner. Having lived here for two decades, you know how Altea works much better than I. Thank goodness I have you to help guide the way.

  12. Spain becomes you Sara. You are starting to look more like a spaniard every day. Your clothes, your sun kissed skin. 🙂

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